WE ADOPTED A 3-YEAR-OLD BOY — WHEN MY HUSBAND WENT TO BATHE HIM FOR THE FIRST TIME, HE SHOUTED, “WE MUST RETURN HIM!”
I’ve been married to my husband for 10 years, and after struggling to have a child, we decided to adopt. My husband, a busy businessman, didn’t have the time to focus on the process, so I took it upon myself to call agencies, submit paperwork, and review lists of children in need of homes.
We initially planned to adopt an infant, but the demand was high. Then I found a photo of a 3-year-old boy whose mother had abandoned him. The boy’s big blue eyes captured my heart.
When I showed the photo to my husband, he liked Sam too. We talked it over and felt ready for this commitment.
So, we completed the paperwork and a month later, we brought Sam home. I was overjoyed! My husband even offered to bathe him for the first time to build a connection, and I felt so relieved that he was excited about becoming a dad.
But just a minute after they entered the bathroom, my husband ran out and shouted, “WE MUST RETURN HIM!”
Amanda and Mark welcomed a 3-year-old boy named Sam into their family, but their lives took a dramatic turn when Mark was taken aback during Sam’s first bath. He noticed a unique birthmark that mirrored his own, leading him to panic and exclaim, “We need to give him back!” This reaction prompted Amanda to delve deeper into the situation, ultimately uncovering that Sam was Mark’s biological son from a fleeting affair years prior. This shocking revelation placed immense strain on their marriage, culminating in a divorce as Amanda pursued custody of Sam.
Having struggled with infertility, Amanda and Mark were thrilled to adopt Sam, a child with captivating blue eyes. However, their joy was fleeting when a DNA test confirmed Mark’s fatherhood. Faced with the undeniable evidence, Mark confessed to a one-night stand, insisting he was unaware it had resulted in a child. Amanda, feeling betrayed by Mark’s willingness to abandon Sam, initiated divorce proceedings, stating, “His mother left him, and you were ready to do the same.”
In the years that followed, Amanda and Sam forged a profound and loving relationship. Although Mark occasionally sends birthday greetings, he remains largely absent from their lives. Reflecting on her experiences, Amanda recognizes that even through heartbreak, unexpected blessings can arise, as Sam has become the greatest source of joy in her life.
